Get fluent in the language of your ROOT.
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A 2.5 hour online and live, hands-on workshop in learning the language of your vulva, root and body after motherhood.
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join with early birdYou have become exceptionally good at reading everybody else.
The hungry cry.
The overtired twitch.
The hand reaching down your top.
The “Muuuuum” from three rooms away.
You feed. You Carry. You Hold. You Soothe. You Anticipate. You Respond.
Your body has become extraordinarily fucking useful.
But somewhere amongst being needed in a thousand different directions, it can become harder to hear the language of your own body.
Your vulva. Your arsehole. Your tissues. Your sensation.
The subtle yes. The definite no. The numb bit. The tender bit.
The places that brace, soften, ache, tingle, open, pull away or quietly ask for your attention.
Your body has been speaking the whole time.
Mother Tongue is 2.5 hours devoted to learning how to listen again.
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I'm ready for this
MOTHER-tongue.
A hands-on, vulva and root loving workshop for mothers.
This is not about getting your libido back.
It is not about becoming more sexually available to your partner.
It is not a masturbation class.
And we are absolutely not trying to bounce you back into the body you had before children.
Birth and motherhood change the territory.
Your tissues may have stretched, torn, scarred, softened or become unfamiliar.
Your nervous system may have spent years on alert.
Your body may have been fed from, slept on, climbed over, penetrated, examined, stitched, wiped, squeezed and generally treated like community property.
Mother Tongue is a chance to turn your attention inwards.
To become curious about the body that exists now.
And to begin rebuilding a warm, alive, intimate relationship with your root.
enrol for freePussy rooted presence is the edge where sexuality, leadership, nervous system literacy, and stewardship meet.
It’s for the woman who understands (or is beginning to understand) that disconnection from her body and sexuality makes her easier to overwhelm, easier to silence, and easier to move off her centre..Â
But when you are:
Rooted in your tissues.
Connected in your erotic current.
Aware of your patterns.
In relationship with your nervous system.
Able to bend and stretch without breaking.
Coherent in how you think, feel, speak, and lead...
You know who you are.
You trust your intuition.
You are not pushed around by noise or trend.
You do not abandon your values to belong.
You become unshakeable.
And when women like that gather,Â
culture shifts.
Your root has a language.
It speaks through sensation.
Pressure. Warmth. Numbness. Tension. Pleasure. Irritation. Softening. Contraction.Â
Most of us were never taught how to listen.
We were taught what vulvas should look like through porn.Â
How sex should happen through male sexuality.
How quickly we should recover after birth.
How to keep everybody else comfortable.
But very few of us were ever taught how to sit with our own bodies and ask:
What are you actually telling me?
That is where we begin.
I'm becoming unshakeable
What people are saying...
In Pussy Rooted Presence you will learnÂ
Day One — Sex. Precision. Integrity.
Sexuality is the root system of a woman’s power. In this opening transmission we explore how reclaiming the body, particularly the pelvis and erotic nervous system, reorganises leadership, voice, and impact. Through the archetype of Artemis, the sovereign huntress who directs her life force toward mastery rather than approval, we examine how chronic stress and cultural conditioning disconnect women from their vitality. The work here is not performance or aesthetic “feminine energy,” but coherence: a regulated nervous system with range, a rooted body and a presence that carries natural authority.
Day Two — True Coherence & Growing Your Edges
In this transmission we explore the threshold where vision meets resistance. The moment your nervous system attempts to pull you back toward the familiar. Every woman carries invisible ceilings shaped by conditioning, identity, and self-protection. When growth asks more of you — more visibility, more responsibility, more power — those limits surface as fear, doubt, and perfectly reasonable excuses. Here we work with the capacity required to move beyond them: expanding your nervous system range so you can stay rooted at the edge of expansion and grow into the woman your vision requires.
Day Three — The Matrilineal Current
In this transmission we enter the Matrilineal Current: The living lineage moving through your body. Behind you are women who adapted, endured, and carried both wound and wisdom in their bones. Ahead of you are generations who will inherit what you interrupt and what you strengthen. Here we explore leadership that is not about individual success but about altering the emotional architecture of the future. A woman who stops patterns of bracing, silence, and self-abandonment, and instead roots power, integrity, and erotic intelligence back into the feminine line.
Live Q&A
A live, unfiltered conversation where you bring your real questions about leadership, sexuality, visibility, money, holding clients, and stepping into your next level. You won’t receive generic advice. You’ll receive direct, clarity building guidance from me.
Wealth. Capacity. Investing.
You cannot hold high-impact work if you cannot hold, move, and invest money intentionally. In this session, we explore your nervous system relationship to investment, expansion, and financial power. Why bigger decisions activate fear and how to grow the steadiness required to hold larger sums, larger rooms, and larger responsibility without panic. This is money as maturity.
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Inside Mother Tongue
01 — Get liberated and educated about your root
We start with liberating, practical education about your vulva, anus, pelvic tissues, nerves and physiology.
We’ll explore what can shift through pregnancy, birth and motherhood, and how things like scar tissue, hormonal change, stress, nervous-system bracing and disconnection can influence the way this part of your body feels.
Real bodies. Real anatomy. No shame. No pornified bullshit.
No expectation that your vulva should look or behave in any particular way.
02 — Learn your own language
Then we move from understanding into feeling. You’ll be guided through a slow, attentive self-touch practice with your own vulva, perineum and anus.
Not to turn yourself on.
Not to make yourself orgasm.
Not to make anything happen.
We are interested in relationship rather than performance.
Because this part of your body may hold a whole history.
The memory of birth.
Tearing, stitching, intervention or healing.
Places that still brace.
Places that feel numb, tender, distant or unfamiliar.
Emotions that surface when you finally slow down enough to notice them.
Grief. Anger. Relief. Shame. Tenderness. Pride. Nothing at all.
Your body may have learned to protect, contract, disconnect or simply get on with the job.
This practice gives you a chance to meet what is here now — without trying to force it into pleasure.
To notice what feels safe.
What feels tender.
Where there is sensation.
Where there is very little.
Where your body softens.
Where it pulls away.
And in doing that, you begin rebuilding a relationship with this part of yourself not just as somewhere connected to birth, sex, pain or somebody else’s access — but as a place of your own knowing.
A place you can listen from.
A place that can become part of your internal compass again.
And little by little, you become more fluent in yourself.
03 — Hear what she said
Then we come back together.
You’ll have space to put words to what you felt, ask the questions you’ve never quite had a place to ask, and hear other mothers speak honestly about their bodies too.
The numbness. The scars. The pleasure. The birth memories. The things that changed. The things nobody warned us about.
There is something wildly liberating about taking all of this out of secrecy and bringing it into conversation.
You leave knowing your body more deeply — and with the relief of realising you are not navigating this territory alone.
Yes, please
This is for you if you identify with…Â
Number One
You’re already in the healing world. A coach, or yoga teacher, a bodyworker, therapist, or space-holder.
You care deeply, and you’re already holding women, but you feel the edge. The rooms you want to lead are bigger than your current capacity.
You want to speak about sex, trauma, embodiment, and power from lived authority. You’re done with surface tools, you want depth, nuance, and maturity. You want to build work that is coherent, ethical, and lasting.
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Number Two
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You’ve taken the retreats and had your toes in the “healing” world.
Now the question isn’t “can I hold this work too?” It’s: “When do I stop circling and actually train?”
You don’t want another fluffy masterclass. You want to become the woman who can hold what she says she wants.Â
To be trained to lead sexual and somatic work responsibly. To build a business rooted in truth. To step into a wave of women doing this work with integrity and real capacity.
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Mother Tongue is calling you if…
Your vulva has felt unfamiliar since giving birth.
You’ve had tearing, scarring, interventions or changes and feel curious about reconnecting with this part of yourself.
You feel touched-out, braced or disconnected from sensation.
Sex or masturbation feels pressured, distant, mechanical or simply uninteresting right now.
You love being a mother and are also deeply ready for something to belong completely to you.
You miss feeling juicy, creative, sensate and switched on inside your own life.
Or perhaps nothing is wrong.
You simply fancy spending two hours giving your pussy an unreasonable amount of loving attention..
This Is meInside Pussy Rooted Presence you will get
- Three podcast-style activation trainings with Grace
- A live Q&A session with GraceÂ
- A session on wealth, money, steady, intentional investingÂ
- Daily integration prompts and actions
- A curated community of devoted women
This is not a place to just listen, you’ll come in and examine your patterns.
You will increase your capacity. You will clarify whether you are ready to lead at a higher level.
If you want passive consumption, this is not for you.
You will be seen, challenged, and asked to grow.
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A very important note
You will not be asked to expose your body to anybody.
You do not need to become aroused.
You do not need to orgasm.
There is nothing to achieve.
And there is no correct experience to have.
This is an invitation to meet your body exactly where she is.
Curious.
Unhurried.
Without agenda.
With a little humour.
And perhaps with the recognition that after everything this body has done, she deserves to be known by you.
I'm in
Who am I?
I’ve spent years studying and working at the intersection of women’s sexuality, somatics, the nervous system, embodiment and erotic wellbeing.
My work has centred around helping women understand what is actually happening in their bodies — not through performance, pressure or “fixing”, but through physiology, nervous-system awareness, touch, sensation and relationship.
Motherhood made this work even more personal.
Birth changed my own body. Mothering changed my relationship with touch, energy, time, desire and the sheer experience of inhabiting myself.
So I’m not approaching this work from theory alone.
I understand the physical reality of birth, the emotional complexity of coming back into contact with a body that has changed, and the very specific ways motherhood can reorganise your relationship with pleasure, boundaries, sensation and self.
Inside Mother Tongue, I bring both:
the depth of years of study and practice, and the lived understanding of what it means to be a mother inside a changing body.
I’m not here to tell you how your vulva should feel.
I’m here to help you understand her more clearly — her tissues, her responses, her history, her signals — and to guide you into a kind of attention that is informed, grounded, trauma-aware and deeply respectful of your own pace.
You are not being led into performance.
You are being led into literacy
A very important note
You will not be asked to expose your body to anybody.
You do not need to become aroused.
You do not need to orgasm.
There is nothing to achieve.
And there is no correct experience to have.
This is an invitation to meet your body exactly where she is.
Curious.
Unhurried.
Without agenda.
With a little humour.
And perhaps with the recognition that after everything this body has done, she deserves to be known by you.
Yes, pleaseYou are not going backwards.
The body you mother with is the body you create with.
The body that carried or birthed is the body that gets to experience pleasure.
The body that feeds, holds and comforts is also the body that gets to belong completely to itself.
Motherhood does not have to sit on one side of your life while sexuality, creativity and aliveness wait patiently on the other.
You do not need to wait until everybody needs less from you before you begin inhabiting yourself again.
Your body is still speaking.
Come listen.